I made my own leather paddle that was 8“ x 4“ along with the 8 inch handle. It had four layers of leather riveted together and really gave a hard whack. This was my wife’s main way to bring me to tears on my bare ass.
I really like her. She is very calm. Talks through what he did wrong. Reminds him of the consequences and then disciplines him. She is so in control that he goes from being somewhat of a wise ass to being contrite. She owns him and while it appears that he doesn't always like this, he knows he needs her.
I wonder who enjoyed it more???